Why did I call this just don’t care? Because I believe that there are so many people out there that may be like I used to be that care way too much what other people think about them. For years I have looked to what other people think about me to find my self worth. The last year has been a tough one for me and with a lot of soul searching I came to the realisation that to be happy meant breaking away from my thinking and behaviours that I had learned and used for so many years. It’s as simple as you just can’t make everyone happy and not everyone will agree with your point of view or how you do something 100% of the time, and guess what? THAT’S OKAY.
Just because someone may not agree or like the way you do something or how you think does not mean you are worth any less or doing something wrong or aren’t good enough. So break free of the chains and live life the way you want to.
So here’s my Just don’t care list
- Just don’t care if you don’t like the way I dress.
- Just don’t care if you don’t like my decisions.
- Just don’t care if you don’t like my attitude.
- Just don’t care if you don’t like my home.
- Just don’t care if you don’t like my relationships.
- Just don’t care if you don’t like my body.
In my experience you can live a much happier and fulfilling life when you shred the society opinions of how you should be and stop trying to appease everyone around you.
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Author: Crystal Gard
I’m a 29 year old Canadian with 3 adorable cats! I’m an avid reader, scrapbooker, blogger, crafter including jewelery making , mixed media art, and watercolour art, among many others and of course cat lover!